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How do you view men and women who cheat?

07.06.2025 17:39

How do you view men and women who cheat?

Well, I'll get my opinion on this because I'm on the treadmill and I need something to do and I don't want to listen to music right now. Even though I should! So you know how they say that if the girl is ugly and the guy is gorgeous, then people think that or some people think that the guy is going to cheat. Because the girl is ugly. Well I just realized this but and I know it's really hard to accept for some dick heads but, I've also thought about it from a woman's perspective because I am. And so I was thinking I know that if the girl is ugly then the guy might cheat. But I was also thinking that if the guy is ugly, the girl might cheat! So we're at a dilemma. You know cuz there's a lot of people out there who are like that. And I mean they say that it's because people are trying to choose men or women that look like they have genetically evolved or has some Superior biological selection from God or something but, I thought about that I mean it is kind of kind of true that if the girl is ugly, then the guy if he's a dick head ass, he might cheat but that's not always true for every good looking guy. But it also is the same that if a woman's boyfriend is ugly, then there is a possibility that the woman will cheat. Or if she doesn't she, then she's not going to be all there unless they've either been friends for a long long time or they are running a business together. Or they are I don't know for some reason really bonded together and the woman likes him. Not all women are chasing after a good guys and not all men are chasing after a pretty woman. But they do say that once you get into dating mode or relationship mode, some people think that if the female is too ugly for the gorgeous guy, that the guy might cheat on her. But it also goes the same way for female too because if a female is too pretty at least for the ugly guy, then there is a possibility that she's going to cheat on the ugly guy! Not all females will cheat on their ugly boyfriends but the same concept of how gorgeous men might cheat on an ugly girl is also the same for ugly men. And so like you know we could say that you know well females should do that and blah blah blah well if females should not do that, then men should not do that either. I mean because they're not really setting a good example and second of all, nobody really likes double standards. And so you've got those two dilemmas right there the first one being that men are not really setting a good example and are being hypocrites. And you know not a lot of people really like hypocrites in whatever area that they're accusing them in. And so the influence of them not being a good you know model a role model for everybody to follow, is just going to cause a lot of people to just go the opposite direction especially females. I mean if the guy is ugly? There is a pretty good chance that the woman might cheat! I mean I know it sounds really bitchy to say and it sounds fucked up because women supposedly should not do that but I know this blah blah blah about two wrongs don't make a right but I mean the first wrong doesn't make a right either. You know a man cheating on a woman isn't right either. So you know we're living in America and I don't know where you're from and what you're used to and what kind of oppression you're used to but I'm not used to that kind of oppression here in this country. And I really don't like it when someone tries to do that to me. And more than likely I absorb the type of things that I see and the hypocrisy as well as the fucked up shit that some guys do. And then how they blame women and stuff like that and then or they might tell me that I should not do that because I'm a female. Well actually we're not living in the Middle East and you can't tell me that I can't do what a man can do. I can do whatever I want regardless of whether a man lets me or not. As long as it's within the confines of you know safe things and something that's not going to hurt other people or hurt myself. But if I'm not in a relationship with you, you're not going to be applying those kinds of double standards to me. I'm just going to say since someone has told me that if I get with a gorgeous guy, that they have a chance of cheating on me? Because I'm not as pretty as other girls? Well it's a possibility that I'm going to cheat on my boyfriend if he's ugly. I'm just going to say it right out! And I know that you know a lot of these like macho ass alpha male type guys are not going to like that kind of statement from me but I really don't give a fuck! I don't care if you like that kind of opinion from me because it's true! I mean you want to like put it like I'm too ugly for a gorgeous guy because the gorgeous guy might cheat on me? Well first of all that's disrespectful and not nice to say to me. And I have actually dated gorgeous guys in the past or somewhere gorgeous guys and they haven't like technically cheated on me but I mean they were like seduced and tempted and stuff like that. And well who's not to say that if I date an ugly guy, gorgeous guy is going to tempt me or seduce me too! You know maybe sooner or later I'm going to wonder why am I dating an ugly guy and why am I not going out with a gorgeous guy and then I'm going to be questioning it just like you think that a gorgeous guy is going to be questioning why he's going out with me because I'm so ugly or something? I mean I'm just saying like you know that's kind of a dilemma but it's not like overly a dilemma. It's not like one of those like crazy topics where it's irreparable. I mean for instance if I do go out with a gorgeous guy, he does have a choice not to cheat on me. He doesn't have to cheat on me. He doesn't have to look at other girls and flirt with him. And I also at the same time if I were going out with an ugly guy, I mean technically I also have the choice of not cheating on him. But I mean if the gorgeous guy is tempted and seduced away, then I'm going to be seduced away from ugly guy! Well one wrong didn't make a right either. You know what I mean? If two wrongs don't make a right then the first one for sure did not make a right either so what are you talking about? I'm just saying like if I'm too ugly today to gorgeous guy and you think that he's going to cheat on me? To date a gorgeous guy and you think that he's going to cheat on me? I mean if that's already the mentality that I'm feeling from the general experience in life and opinions of others and what some people say etc etc, if that's already in my head psychologically, then I mean I might just apply that to an ugly boyfriend. I mean who's to say I'm not going to cheat on my ugly boyfriend? How do you guarantee that because that's that kind of thought is already in my head now! Sorry in my head I mean because I've already been like fucked with like that you know it made to feel like if I date a gorgeous guy then he's probably going to cheat on me because I'm ugly, then I'm going to go ahead and cheat on an ugly guy. I'm going to cheat on the ugly guy! Then I'm going to go and find an ugly boyfriend and I'm going to go cheat on him. In fact, even before me and that ugly guy get into a relationship? I'm probably going to be a complete fucking bitch. I mean if if the whole mentality about gorgeous guys not liking me because I'm ugly or socially weird or socially this or privately this or tattooed or something like this because the gorgeous guy is too gorgeous to go out with me? Then that means that I'm too gorgeous to go out with an ugly guy. And if I am pressured to go out with an ugly guy? I'm going to cheat on him. Because that's the whole like saying about this whole mind fucking game is that I'm being pressured to believe that a gorgeous guy is going to cheat on me because I'm ugly. Then I'm going to cheat on an ugly guy! I mean I'm just going to like treat them like dog shit I mean if that's the way that society wants gorgeous guys to treat me? Then I'm going to be treating your ugly Brothers and you're ugly friends and you're ugly sons like complete fucking dog shit. because I don't feel that that's right that society is trying to make it be like I have to go out with somebody ugly because I'm ugly myself and I'm too ugly for a gorgeous guy. And so now what I'm going to do is turn that shit around and say that ugly guy is too ugly for me and if I'm pressured to get with an ugly guy? I'm going to cheat on him. I'm going to cheat on him. Or I'm just going to respond to him whenever the fuck I want or just be really fucking out right fucking rude to him. I mean if that's the way that you know some of these bitches and these fucking dickhead asses want to be, to me, then I'm going to have to hurt a lot of guys feelings. You know because I'm getting my feelings hurt you know how would you like to be told that you're too ugly to date a gorgeous guy? Well if I'm too ugly today to gorgeous guy, then I'm going to cheat on ugly men and treat them like dog shit. And I'm going to say that outright that I feel like it's already started? I feel like it's already started to wear like I am treating ugly guys like dog shit. Because you know that's the way that I was fucked with. That's the way that society or some girls or some guys made me feel was that I'm too ugly or I'm to not white to go out with a white guy. Or I'm too ugly to go out with somebody younger than me or blah fucking blah whatever the fuck reason. But if that's the case, I'm going to be treating all of these ugly guys that tried to flirt with me like dog shit. And I think I've already actually started and if I am cornered and pressured into getting with an ugly guy? Then the same mentality is going to go for me and I'm going to say that guy is too ugly for me I better hurry up and cheat. I better hurry up and find a way to cheat on this ugly guy because he doesn't deserve me! You know because that's like essentially is that I don't deserve to be in a relationship with a gorgeous guy. And so I'm going to tell ugly guys that they don't deserve to be in a relationship with me because they're too ugly for me and that's the way it's going to be. Until something changes? That's the way I've already decided it's going to be. And it's no use trying to corner me into dating these ugly dick heads either. Because it hasn't worked yet. I mean it's already been was like 10 years a year? To try to fucking corner me into dating some fucking ugly dick head that I don't want to date? Oh no you can keep on cornering me because it's not going to work. And if I have to do this for the rest of my life? That's exactly what I'm going to do. But I'm not giving up I'm not surrendering to my enemies. To these dickhead asses and bitches of society who want me to basically be as oppressed as possible. Without a fucking opinion and without a choice and without anything. They want me to have no choice and they want me to succumb to what they want me to do. And I'm not doing it and now they're pissed off. But I don't care because I've been pissed off too a long time! They're not the only ones that's been pissed off. Why do they think that they're so special that their anger is more special than my anger? Their anger is not more special than my anger. Should I've been angry too shit I said shit I've been angry too! Just like them and their anger is not more special than mine and their anger is not more important than mine. My anger is just as important if not more fucking important. but apparently these fucking dick head asses they think that their anger is more justified than my anger. No it's not! You're anger is not more justified than my anger! Trust me on that one. You can try to corner me all the fucking life you want? And I'm still not going to fucking budge. Or I might just take you up on that offer and treat that fucking ugly dick head like a piece of shit. Because you said that I don't deserve to be with a gorgeous guy. Or you said I was too socially inept. Or socially awkward. Or I don't know how to communicate I don't know how to fucking go on a date. Well maybe there's a socially awkward gorgeous guy. Maybe there's a socially shy gorgeous guy. Maybe there's a gorgeous guy that's on my level or something I don't know. Some guy that like talks like me or something. I don't know but whatever it is there's a hot guy for me even though you don't want there to be a hot guy for me. But there's going to be a hot guy for me. Because I deserve a hot guy too. And you're not going to tell me that I don't deserve to be with someone gorgeous because you're telling me that I'm too ugly for them. That's not going to happen. As you can see, I'm literally like holding up. I'm holding my ground! I'm not going to give in to your fucking wishes! You think you're screwing with somebody who's like really gullible and really naive and stuff like that? Like somebody that was born yesterday? I wasn't born yesterday. I don't have to do what you want me to do because from the looks of it, you're being a dick head ass to me. That's what it looks like from my perspective. And so you can corner me with all the ugly ass dickheads you want! But I'm still not going to budge. And also the thing about telling me how I should be as a female or how I should be just in general? Don't try telling me anything like that because first of all can I turn it around and tell you how to be? Can I tell you how and what you should do on a daily basis and how to spend your money and how to live your life? More than likely that answer is a no. If that answer is a no to any of those things? Then don't even try to tell me what the fuck. How I should live my life and what kind of person I need to date and blah blah blah. Or how I should behave as a female and blah blah blah if I am able to tell you how I think you should live or how what you should do with your money or what you should do with your power or what you should do with your skills or whatever? Then I may take some suggestions. I'm still not going to just automatically let you tell me what to do. Just because you allowed me to tell you what to do. I might take some suggestions and that's completely up to me! That's absolutely up to me because you're not going to boss me around. you're not going to tell me what the fuck to do especially if it's something that I don't want to do. Or if it's something that makes me feel uncomfortable or you're just coming across as super pushy. It's not going to work. I will be a dick head ass right back to you just like you're being a dick head ass right back to me.